FOR THE ONE I LOVE

The I want to be in your thoughts all day long. I want to tamper with your senses and give you no space to assemble your thoughts to come to an equilibrium. I want my voice to be the first you yearn to hear every morning, to start the with and to end the day. I want to be in control of your emotions and like a video game, I wanted you to be happy only when you have won my happiness. I want a sync between us. So much that you would fall ill when I fall ill and have rashes all over you when my head aches. I want to be able to know wherever I am that your thoughts are hundred percent about me. I want to wake up to your messages every morning,  your calls, to wish me a beautiful day ahead and yea, some other calls in-between to make sure I am really doing good. I want to go to sleep only when you sing me a lullaby through the phone.
    They say distance makes the heart grow fonder. I subscribe to that but I do not wish to spend so much time away from the one I love. I want to wake up in your arms where I know I must have slept off the night before, I want to come back, tired from work and meet a husband who has prepared my dinner. I want to watch a romantic movie with you and get turned on. I want to kiss you lightly on the lips and I want you to kiss me back fiercely all over. The kiss that ignites passion. I want your hands to journey through my body. A journey where every obstacle in the form of clothing will be fiercely removed. I want you to do to me what the whores outside would do to you if you run into their arms ever. I want  your tongue to go through me, savoring every part of me, inside out. I want your tongue on my nipples, my breasts, my belly button, my neck. I want you to give me the out of the world feeling. I want you to plunge into me and give mighty thrusts into me like the next minute will be Armageddon. I want you to sweat, the sweat of pleasure and of love. I want you to work hard, moving your body over me, going with the rhythm of my heart beat. I want you to carry me into paradise. I want to scream and wake the neighbors up. I want the world to know that you are mine and I am yours and even if we aren't perfect in anything else, I want perfection to come when your lips meet mine. I want you. I want you in totality...




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I APPRECIATE YOU ALL

Firstly I really have to appreciate each and everyone of you for celebrating my birthday with me. I didn't get expensive gifts or the hottest party but your words to me made this birthday the best. One of the reasons why I loved this particular one is because people were able to realize the irony in life, few individuals I conversed with were thankful to God for life. I'm happy my birthday brought about a huge notice to individuals what it means to be alive, we are not so faithful or righteous, neither are we more special than those who lost their lives. I leant something big on my birthday and I realised not everyone can be what you wish they could be, not everyone can have what you have, not everyone has the life you have right now, so I urge everyone of you to be thankful for what your have rather than complaining about the things you don't have.
As the day goes by, we are faced with opportunities, we meet obstacles,  we face depression and as every day goes by we face our mistakes and misfortunes, we face alot in our every day life, but we need to learn from these experiences and thank God instead of being foolish and always being victims. For it's only a wise man that makes the decision to move forward after every mistake while the foolish keep on facing the same situation without realising his mistakes.
The journey of life seems as an impossible one to many right now and that has made so many individuals live  careless and reckless lives and as such are  doomed. It's  painful to see how we are leaving our responsibility.It's painful how I've realised so many people don't care and want to live life to themselves alone. We need to take a new turn now, every thing we do should be laid on a proper foundation for a glorious tomorrow, for the life we live is not just about today , tomorrow matters because its the future, our future.
 Once again i appreciate everyone who wished me well on my birthday, I am equally grateful to those who had me in mind but were on able to just send it, and I celebrate some people who don't care.


 Wish you a wonderful new month.


"Life is only but a mystery you and I can't understand fully."




Stephen Adole

My Exceptional Mum

My mum and my joy, my pride, an epitome of beauty, an epitome of hard work,an inspiration, selfless in thought,beautiful and loving, a perfect explanation of love and benevolence, my mum whose actions explain what to live for in life, I don't really know the particular words to use in appreciating you , I see the life you have lived and it makes me more stronger, your patience towards our actions is unimaginable, i know to some extend I haven't given you the best to some extent but one thing am so sure of is  you will enjoy the fruit of your labor and you are the best thing that ever happened to me, you are the best person to ever love ❤ on planet earth,you will see the best of your children by the grace of God, your life from this time hence forth shall be favored unlimitedly, I have taken out time to look at your works, and the trainings you gave to me  and all I see is a new Beauty, new strength, fresh desire to do more for us your children, You smile to me even when I don't deserve to be smiled to and  I realized you are the best mummy for me and no other can replace you,you shield me in trouble, you give me your last in the  hardest of time, you go far and wide to seek for answers to our every problem,i realized I  can celebrate you over and over again for the rest of my life, you cover my shame, you help me when am helpless, you teach me discipline, you prepare me for my future, you give me a good  song to sing , you make me stand strong among my pairs, your words of encouragement keeps on coming day in day out. My exceptional mum who will forever stand tall in my heart.
An  A-Z Description of who My mother is, ( which can be applicable to your mum).

       A
Abiding, Able, Aboveboard, Abundant, Accepting, Accessible, Accommodating, Accommodative, Acknowledging, Active, Actual, Adaptable, Adept, Admirable, Admired, Adored, Adoring, Advocative, Affable, Affectionate, Affective, All heart, Allegiant, All-important, Allowing, Altruistic, Amative, Amazing,    Ameliorative,   Amelioratory,  Amenable, Amiable, Amicable, Amusing, Appeasing,  Appreciated, Approachable, Appropriate, Approving,  Apt, Assertive,  Assiduous, Assistive, Associative, Assuring,  At hand, At the ready,  Attentive , Authentic, Available, Awaited, Aware, Awesome.


B
Balanced, Beaming,  Beautiful, Believable, Belonging, Beneficent, Benevolent,   Benignant,   Better,  Best, Beyond compare, Big-hearted, Blue-ribbon, Bright, Buoyant.


C
Calm, Calming, Calmative, Can do, Capable, Cared for, Careful, Caring, Caretaking, Casual, Celebrated, Celebratory, Centered, Central, Certain, Changeless, Charitable, Charming, Cheerful, Cherished, Cherishing, Chosen, Chummy, Classic, Classy, Clean, Clear, Clear-cut, Clearheaded, Clear-sighted,  Clement, Close, Collaborative,  Colourful, Comfortable, Comforting, Commiserative, Committed, Commodious, Commonsensical, Communal, Communicative, Companionable, Compassionate, Competent,  Complete, Complimentary, Composed, Conciliatory,  Condolatory, Confident, Congenial, Conscientious, Consentient, Considerable, Considerate, Consistent, Constructive, Contemplative, Conversant, Convivial, Cool, Cordial, Correct, Correlative, Courteous, Cozy, Crackerjack, Creative,  Credible, Creditable, Credited, Cultivating, Cultured, Curative.


D
Dauntless, Dear,  Decent, Decisive, Dedicated, Deductive, Definite, Deliberate, Delightful,  Dependable, Deserving, Determined, Devoted,   Didactic, Diehard, Dignified, Diligent, Diplomatic, Direct, Disarming, Discerning
Disciplined, Discreet, Discrete, Distinguishing, Diverse, Doting, Doubtless,  Doughty,  Down-to-earth, Driven, Durable, Dutiful, Dynamic.


E
Earnest, Earthy, Easy to approach, Easy to talk to, Economical,  Edifying, Educational, Effective, Effectual, Efficient, Elevating, Empathetic, Empowering, Enabling, Enchanting, Encouraging, Endearing, Endeavouring, Endorsing, Enduring, Energetic, Energizing, Engaged, Engaging, Enjoyable, Enlightening, Enlivening,  Enriched, Enriching, Ensuring, Enterprising, Entertaining, Enthusiastic, Entrusted,  Equiponderate  Equitable, Essential, Established, Esteemed, Ethical , Even-handed, Evocative, Evolved, Excellent, Exemplary,  Exhortative,  Exhortatory, Expeditious, Expeditive, Experienced, Extraordinary.


F
Familiar, Fiery, Firm, First, First-class, First-order, First-rate, Five-star, Flavourful, Flavoursome, Focused, Fond,  Forbearant, Forbearing, Foremost, Foresighted, Forgivable, Forgiving, Formidable, For real, Forthcoming, Forthright, Fortifying, Forward-thinking, Foundational, Foundationary, Four-star, Frank, Friendly, Fruitful, Fulfilling, Fundamental.

G
Generative, Generous, Genial, Genteel, Gentle, Genuine, Germane, Giving, Goal-oriented, Good, Goodhearted, Good-feeling, Good-humoured, Goodly, Good-natured, Graceful, Gracious, Greathearted, Grounded, Guaranteed, Guiding, Guileless, gumption, Gung ho.


H
Handy, Happy, Hard-working, Harmless, Harmonic, Harmonious, Head, Healing, Heartfelt, Heart-to-heart, Heartwarming, Hearty, Heavenly, Helpful, Helping, Heroic, High Calibre, Highly valued, High-minded, High-quality, High-reaching, High-spirited, Honest, Honourable, Honoured, Hospitable, Huggable, Human, Humane, Humanistic, Humanitarian, Humble, Hygienic.


I
Ideal, Idealistic, Illuminating, Imaginative,  Imitable, Immaculate, Immeasurable, Immediate, Impartial, Impassioned, Impeccable, Imperturbable, Important, Improvisational, Incisive, Inclusive, Incomparable, Incontrovertible,  Incomplex,   Incorrupt, Incorruptible, Inculpable, Indefatigable, In demand, Indestructible, Indispensable, Indisputable, Indomitable, Indubitable, Industrious, Inexhaustible,  In fine fettle (good spirits), Influential, Informative, Inimitable, Innovative, Inquisitive, Insightful, Inspirational, Inspiring, Inspiriting, Instinctive, Instructive, Integral, Integrated, Integrative, Interconnected, Interconnective, Intelligent, Intent, Interactive, Interested, Intertwined, Intrepid, Intrinsic, Inventive, Invigorated, Invigorating, Invincible, Inviting, Irenic, Irreplaceable, Irrepressible, Irreproachable.


J.
Jovial, Joyful, Joyous, Judicious, Just, Justified, Just right,   Juvenescent.
   
K.
 Keen, Key, Kind, Kind-hearted, Kindly, Knowable, Knowing, Knowledgeable, Known, Kosher.  


M.
Magical, Magnanimous, Made a difference, Managerial, Mannerly, Matchless,  Maternal, Matter-of-fact, Mature, Maximal, Meaningful, Measured, Meditative,  Memorable, Merciful, Meritable, Meritorious, Merry, Methodical, Methodological, Meticulous, Mettle, Mindful, Miraculous, Model, Modest, Moral, Motherly, Motivating, Motivational, Moving, Multidimensional, Multidisciplined, Multifaceted, Munificent.


N.
Natural, Near to one's heart, Nearby, Neat, Necessary, Needed, Neighbourly,   Never-failing, Nice, Noble, Nobody's fool, No dummy, No strings attached, Nonchalant,  Nonpareil, Normal, Normative, Not born yesterday, Nourishing, Number one, Nurturing.

O.
Objective, Obliging, Observant, OK, Okay, On hand, On the ball, On the beam, On the job, On the outlook, On the money, On the move, Open, Open-handed, Open-hearted, Open-minded, Optimal, Optimistic, Optimum, Orderly, Organic, Organized, Original, Outgoing, Outspoken, Outstanding, Overflowing, Overjoying, Overriding, Overruling, Overt.


P
Pious,    Placid,  Pleasing, Plenteous, Plentiful, Plucky, Poignant, Poised, Polite, Positive, Potent, Powerful, Practicable, Practical, Practiced, Pragmatic, Praiseworthy, Prayerful, Precious, Prepared, Preponderant, Present, Presentable, Prevalent, Prevailing,   Priceless, Primary, Principled, Proactive, Probative, Productive, Proficient, Progressive, Promoting, Prompt, Proper, Propitious,  Protective, Proud, Prudent,   Puissant,  Punctual, Pure, Purifying, Purposeful, Purposive.
  
Q
Qualified, Qualitative, Quality, Queenly, , Quick, Quickened, Quick on the draw, Quick-witted, Quiet, Quintessential.


R.
Rare, Rational, Razor-sharp, Reliable, Reachable, Ready, Real, Reassuring, Receiving, Receptive,   Reciprocal, Recommendable, Rejuvenating, Related, Relative, Relaxed, Relaxing, Relished, Relishing, Remarkable, Renewing, Renewed, Resourceful, Respectable, Respected, Respectful, Restorative, Revitalized, Revitalizing, Revivifying, Rewarded, Rewarding, Right, Righteous, Right neighbourly.


S
Spiffy, Spirited, Spiritual, Splendid, Spontaneous, Spotless, Square, Stable,  Stainless, Stalwart, Stand-up, Stately, Staunch, Steadfast, Steady, Stellar, Sterling,  Sthenic, Stimulative,   Stouthearted, Straightforward, Straight out, Strategic, Striving, Strong, Strong-willed, Substantial, Substantive, Succinct, Super, Superabundant, Superb, Super-ethical, Super-excellent, Superlative, Supporting, Supportive, Sure, Sure-fire, Sure-footed, Sure-handed, Surpassing, Sustaining, Sweet, Sympathetic, Synergistic, Systematic,Self-assured, Self-confident, Self-disciplined, Self-expressive, Self-governing, Selfless, Self-made, Self-sacrificing, Self-starting, Self-taught,  Sensible, Sensitive.


T
Tactful, Take-charge, Talented, Taught, Teaching, Temperate, Tenacious, Tender-hearted, Terrific, Therapeutic, There, Thorough, Thoughtful, Thriving, Tidy, Tight, Timeless, Time-saving, Tip-top, Tireless, Together, Tolerant, Tonic, Top, Top drawer, Top-notch, Tops, Touching, Tough, Trailblazing, Tranquil, Transformative,  Transpicuous, Treasurable, Treasured, True, True-blue, Trusted, Trustful, Trusting, Trustworthy, Trusty, Truthful,  Tutelary.


U
Unabashed, Unafraid, Unambiguous, Unassuming, Unbeatable, Unbeaten, Unbiased, Unblemished, Unbroken, Uncensurable, Uncommon, Uncomplicated, Uncompromising, Unconditional, Unconditionally Loving, Unconventional, Uncorrupted, Undauntable, Undaunted, Undeniable,  Understandable, Understanding, Understood, Undisputed, Undivided, Undoubted, Unequalled, Unequivocable, Unequivocal, Unfaltering, Unfaultable, Unfeigned, Unflagging, Unflappable, Unhesitating,  Unimpaired, Unimpeachable, Unimpeded, Unique, Unisonous,  Unobtrusive, Unparalleled, Unpretentious, Unquestionable, Unrefuted, Unreserved, Unrivalled, Unselfish, Unshakable, Unshaken, Unstoppable, Unsurpassed, Untiring, Unwavering, Upbeat, Up front, Uplifting, Upright, Upstanding,  User-friendly, Utilitarian.

V.
Validating, Valued,  Veracious, Veridical, Versatile, Vibrant, Vigilant, Vigorous, Virtuous, Vital, Vivacious, Vivid,vocational, Vivifying.


W.
Wanted, Warm, Warm-hearted,  Watchful, Welcoming,  Well-behaved, Well-disposed, Well-established, Well-founded, Well-grounded, Well-informed, Well-intentioned, Well-liked, Well-meaning, Well-received, Well-spoken,
Wholehearted, Wholesome, Wise, Within reach, Without equal, Wonderful, Working, World class, Worthy. 


X.
 Xenial,   Xenodochial .

Y.
Young-at-Heart.


 Z.
 Zealous, Zestful, Zesty.


Today been the 22th of October I want you to join me celebrate the birthday of my mum by sharing this with your exceptional mums. Our mothers are our pried, please join my celebrate mothers, join me celebrate your exceptional mum, join me celebrate my mum as she add a year to her life , and for those of you who have lost their exceptional mum , I want you to be who your mum would have loved you to become, situation have made your mum live which am so sorry about but I want you to be that exceptional mum your children would love to have.
 
Happy birthday to my exceptional mum.


"A mother is the bed rock of a generation"

 Stephen  Adole

True situational Analysis of Life.



After Secondary School..
Some of our classmates have gone out of the country,
Others have completed universities and are now
Doctors,
Engineers,
Teachers,
Pilots,
Lawyers,
Administrators, etc.


Some are married,
Some have given birth.. .
Some are dead,
(Don't forget that too)


And others are confined in psychiatric homes.
Some are running their higher degrees: Masters ,PHD, etc.
Some haven't even gained admission into the tertiary institution and might NEVER be able to.


Some own companies,
Some are now Directors and majority shareholders of huge companies.


But how do you feel
When you meet your classmate, and it seems like he/she has reached his dreams
And you're not yet close to yours?
So many thoughts runs through your mind.


How about the one you meet on the street wearing dirty rags and feeds on the refuse dumps and drinks from the gutters?


Do you get the same thoughts running through your mind?
First, you think God has not been fair to you.
But don't forget some are already dead. 

Somehow it feels natural to have a feeling of jealousy for those mates who seems better off but it's really uncalled for.


There is no room for regret
We all are different
And our paths to greatness
Is not same in distance.


Some might get there before you,
Some might get there
after you
But wherever level you are presently,
Please keep trying to break limitations and move further.
Celebrate the success of others, its an application
for yours.


Your friend buys a car now,
Be happy with him/ her. Remember when you get yours,

Theirs might not  be the latest again.
Life is not by competition,
If not,
We all will be born into one type of family,
One religion and same in everything.


Let the passion in you  never quench the desire in you,
Keep it burning.


What you pass through,
Write it down because one day the world would be ready to read it.
There's no height you cannot attain,
Just believe.

Define goals and recognize distractions.
Spend time teaching yourself,
Because the things that
Mainly take people to the top
Are the things
They devoted time to develop.


Don't be intimidated by your fellow's success,
The sky is wide enough
For birds to fly
Without touching one another.


Value the small things
That God brings
And comes into our lives
And love God
And do the work of God.
For with God,
All things are possible.


Now to those who are on top,
Never forget to give a helping hand
To those who are down.
Life is full of uncertainties;
The one you pull up today
May be the one to hold your hand
To prevent you from falling down.
A piece of advice there.


May our friendship grow
From strength to strength,
From grass to grace,
From zero to zenith
And from Earth to Heaven.
WISH YOU MORE SUCCESS
IN THIS JOURNEY  CALLED  LIFE.


"love to live and you will live to love"




Stephen Adole

How I wish

The plant discovers hope at the slightest drop of water and to my life I don't just discover hope I see hope in you. God blessed you with the most wonderful gifts the world ever knew, it could be in the day time or at late night but things will never change because in you, what am seeing in you is so strong. My heart sings in total joy, why? It because I found a blessing, I found a true story to tell  of what beauty could  ever be spoken or said of, my words right now can't go so far to express the burning desire of my very heart to an epitome of greatness . I push my hand so far praying I reach out to you just to say words of affection that are meant for your hearing . In sorrow and worries there's a name that can be called ,in agony and anguish my heart tells me there's a shoulder to cry on. Time could be more than just been bad but I have words that pushes me beyond limits.
     So much words has been said , it's expression are so wonderful and am so sure you would think it's meant for an individual but the truth is many people out there once saw a country called Nigeria in that manner. They had hope like the plant would when it feels water. Many individuals felt the country would smile to them. Yesterday, today and tomorrow are the same story of agony and anguish, sorrow and worries is about to be a virtue in our daily living. Pain has a trademark in our own lives, our heart bleed in tears why? Because we have no one to cry to, we have been amputated by frustration, depression is a lifestyle, we are been engrossed by greed , crowned in oppression, enslaved in disagreement, we have been useless by the zeal to make money , we have moved from light to absolute darkness with no intention of getting out because of the it's benefits.
     We all  have failed to realize we are a secret to the world, we aren't meant to be exposed both in daylight or at midnight running together no matter the difficulties , we are meant to be TWO AND TWO (2&2), our brothers keeper , a strong hold standing so firm to the ground making our nation the envy of all, we have failed to realize all these.
     Except for few individuals in our very nation, many others have given a different national anthem and pledge. The masses, my fellow Nigerians, citizens of this nation, we have been given a different story, mentality , and perspective towards our great nation which it so certain  that many will adopt a negative view concerning this country and I don't really think it's your doing. But one thing I feel you should have in mind is " the misbehavior of others should not change your focus, how you have been, what you are now does not really matter right now.... What  matter is what you will become, I equally understand getting to that destination is so difficult but believe me every difficulty has it own lessons to learn. I don't know who could be reading this but one thing I know is you can be anything you want to be if you feel it, and work towards it. Am a boy who don't have now but I know I will. Your life is all about what you think it will be and how your attitude is towards it. "
   "Learn From Yesterday, Live For Today , Plan For Tomorrow."




Stephen Adole.

WE CAN BE ONE

It is time to push peace forward in our communities, states and our nation. I know it might be difficult in the heart of many, but what's the use of going against each other? what's really the reason for fighting against each other ,for what we will all die and leave on earth.Am so sure many nations have said we are advancing towards destruction and all we do is help their words come to pass because of our selfish interest . We were known as the pillar of Africa , but how disappointing to realize the great has fallen. I was so happy growing up because I felt I was growing up in a better nation , but it seems we are at that point where the we have lost hope in togetherness.
"I plead with everyone today, man, women, boys or girls, now is the time to show the world we can be one great nation. Either from the east or west, north or south , life can still be as peaceful as possible it just about our mind set."

A prayer we all forgot

Oh God of creation, direct our noble cause
 Guide our leaders right
 Help our youth and truth to know
 In love and honesty to grow
 And living just and true
 Great lofty heights attain
 To build a nation where peace and justice shall reign.


Why have we forgotten that one prayer that keeps us together, why have we forgotten that one thing that keeps us so strong as Nigerians.
no need for division, but rather to strengthen our nation. For we so beautiful as one, why break up the bound that keeps us strong? Why do we have to fight the same war our fathers did?
please look at the coming generation and prepare a better ground for them so a better story can be told to their own children.


"learn from yesterday,live for today and plan for tomorrow"


 Live to love and you will love to live


Stephen Adole

Questions Of Life

What are those battles you're faced with? What are your fears? What is your situation? What is that dream you're giving up for your current situation? What is that challenge that is weighing you down? What is that pain you can't handle? What is that sorrow you can't bear? Where is that hope you were meant to keep alive? Where is that faith of your? What has people made you believe about yourself? How many of you fell and can't get back up? How many of you feel you can never achieve that dream of yours? How many of you feel you have lost all hope that's needed? How many of you look at the world and feel you have no place in this world? I ask how many of you?                                                                                              How far, how long, how strong, how hard, how painful, how bad, how heartless, how sorrowful, how depressing, how oppressed, how rejected, how frustrated, how has the life you live affected you, what has your past said about you, how well do you fear the future because of your past , how bad are the problems in your family, how difficult has life been so far, what are the shame you go through on a regular basis? But if you must know
              The future you wish to have starts with a positive mind set. Ask yourself if you're ready for the task ahead. Protect your tomorrow now because there's no better tomorrow than your today.
        
      LIVE. LOVE. LAUGH.
     
                                                 Stephen Adole